I have to ask how it is that you ask someone to be in one of the most important days of you life....and then take it back, for no better reason than one bitch who complained and complained about being in the wedding (but wanted to be pregnant, and the whole world has to bow to her becuase she "might" be on bed rest). So you let the "woman" be in the wedding anyway, and ask another guy to be part of the day. The dumb bitch gets pregnant and says she cant be on her feet at the time of the wedding, so you call the guy and say...so oops, dont want you now!
I dont think that is right. NO WAY
You swallow the pill from the chick, and either find someone else or you have one extra person on one side. I was in a wedding last year, there were three girls and two guys, it was still nice. So what he wants more guys, or she wants more girls.
YOU DONT ASK A PERSON AND THEN TAKE IT BACK!!!
That is what my cousin did....Right at this moment in time....I am not going to the damn wedding. Its a damn good thing my husband didnt book the days off of work yet.